Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Not better or worse... just DIFFERENT.


This picture shows the over 14,000 McDonalds in the United States. I drove by 3 of them today just taking my daughter to swim lessons. Just out of curiosity, I searched on the McDonalds website and there are 16 McDonalds within 15 miles of my house! Currently there are over 31,000 McDonalds in over 119 countries. Go ahead and guess how many there are in Haiti?
Zero. Thats right, not a single one. This fact in itself isn't really all that important but it got me thinking. In 24 days things are going to be very different. Lets take a look at the last 24 hours of my life in comparison...

Yesterday I dropped the kids off at the babysitter's house where they have gone the last couple of years. They love her. She is like family to us. She is like a grandma to our kids. We won't see her for the next year. No babysitter needed. We won't really be going out anywhere.


I then drove a short few miles to work. I only have 4 days left of work at the pharmacy. I have been at this store 3 years and won't see my co-workers for a whole year. (Jen, you better be there when I get back). I spent 8 hours filling scripts for people. Mostly convenience medicine. Things like birth control, acne medication, and pain medication. Most covered nicely by insurance. People just hopped in their car, went to a doctor, went to the pharmacy (didn't even have to get out of the car if they used the drive thru) and got whatever medication they needed for little cost..

Some even complained it took more than 5 minutes to get their medicine or that their item cost too much. In a few weeks I will be in a clinic where people will walk several hours to be seen. They will only get needed medications (the pharmacy doesn't stock birth control or acne meds) for serious conditions after waiting all day to be seen. Most will be extremely ill. For many, this will be the first time they have ever seen a doctor. Think about how many times you have seen a doctor in your life. In the U.S. there are 3 doctors for every 1000 people. In Haiti, just 0.25 doctors per 1000 people. Maybe we won't even have the medicine they need at the clinic. No one will complain about the 2 hour walk in 85 degree heat or the 4 hour wait to be seen. I would be willing to bet most aren't able to take the medication correctly because they can't read the directions on the label.



After work I drive my nice car home to my 3,600 sq ft house. The lights are all glowing in the windows because rarely does the electricity go out (I would say never, but it was out for 10 minutes yesterday). Our power grid is reliable... and cheap. In a few weeks our 600 sq ft house will run off a deisel generator. There is no power grid in Chambrun. Before going to bed, I fixed a cup of hot cocoa in my Keurig machine and laid down on my leather chair in my office to read email. No Keruig in Haiti, no office either. We have 3 bedrooms (which are 6ft by 15ft) and a family room/kitchen/office/playroom room in our Haiti house. We will have wireless which can be spotty but checking email, Facebook, etc will be no problem.


I then went upstairs to change clothes and brush my teeth. I drank water right out of the faucet. It is safe, and inexpensive. I could even let it just run and run if I wanted (I didn't). In Haiti we will have a well dug for our house. It probably won't be done until mid January so we won't have water for awhile. I then got into my king size bed (not gonna have that soon) and studied some Creole (going to be doing a lot of that soon). I turned on Dave Letterman (no more of that soon) and fell asleep.


This morning I woke up to help Isabel get ready for school. I am a little freaked out to think that in a few weeks I will be her teacher. I just hope I don't put her behind! Now she goes to a school a mile from our house with great teachers and wonderful friends. She plays and learns all day long and loves it. In Haiti, school will be at our house. And I will be her teacher. And the only kids her age will speak Creole.

We had breakfast. We got to choose between multiple cereals, oatmeals, waffles, eggs, poptarts, etc. The list could go on and on. Soon there will be little choice. Most days we will eat what is being served in the cafeteria.

I got the kids dressed and we jumped in the van to go to swimming lessons. Sydney is becoming quite the little swimmer! She is so excited for the beach in Haiti... as am I! We are hoping to get there at least monthly. Isn't it beautiful. See... Haiti is beautiful!


On the way I stopped at Starbucks for a pumpkin spice chai. Anyone want to guess how many Starbucks there are in Haiti? Yup, none. I seriously waited 10 minutes in the drive thru for a $5 tea! (In my defense I had a gift card so I didn't actually pay for it). In Haiti, I will still drink tea... it will be made the old fashioned way... by me!


After swimming we stopped at Petsmart (uh, I don't remember seeing any pet stores in Haiti) to pick up a few things for the dog. A store that only sells stuff for pets. I remember watching a show called "Meet the Natives" last year which chronicled the activities of native Pacific Islanders on their first trip to the United States. During one episode they visited a pet store and could not believe the amount of things we have for pets (can you say ballet costumes for dogs). One of the "natives" even said "If they would treat their people as well as they treat their pets, they might be better off". Huh.

After the pet store we headed home, passing 3 McDonalds. I threw my Starbucks cup in the trash and the Petsmart bag in the recycling. In Haiti there is no organized trash pickup. Recycling is something everyone does because most can not afford to waste things. Things are used and reused, often being repurposed multiple times.

I threw a load of laundry in the washer... in my nice big laundry room that exists just for doing laundry. There is a washer and dryer in chambrum... about 50 yards from the house. Sort of like a laundry mat from our apartment living days :)

I let the dog out to run around the yard enclosed by the invisible fence. Not sure what he is going to do in Haiti. Probably chase the goats all day long!

The mail truck drove by delivering our mail like they do 6 days a week. Honestly, I have no clue about the mail service in Haiti. It seems elusive since no one can tell me about it. I got a package. I ordered a school book for Isabel a few days ago online and here it is, right to my house in a few short days. As I walked to the mailbox I looked at the yard and realized it needs mowed. Huh, we won't even have grass in Haiti. Just dirt, or mud, depending on the rain situation. No plants that need trimmed. No flowers that need grown. No weeds that need picked. No grass that needs fertilized.

I then emptied the dishwasher (not going to have one of those soon, unless you count Aaron) and tried to stuff all my kitchen items into place. Soon our "kitchen" will be 6ft by 7ft and contain a counter, a bakers rack, a microwave, a hot plate, and a toaster oven. Now I have a huge refrigerator, a microwave, an oven, numerous small appliances, a dishwasher, and about 20 cabinets.


Now I am thinking that instead of writing this post I should be doing the reading for this week's bible study. We meet weekly with 3 other couples and have done so for over 10 years. We won't see them for quite some time. These are the friends we do life with. Almost every important thing happens with them. In fact all our friends and family are still here in Indiana or Ohio of Florida. Far away from Haiti.

Now I sit here typing on my computer, thinking how different things are going to be in 3 short weeks. Not "better. Not "worse". Just DIFFERENT. Some things will be hard no doubt. Some things will be easy. Most things will just be different. New friends will be made, new experiences had.


My life is all about convenience now. I have so many things at my fingertips. Too many things perhaps. How nice will it be to live simply for a year. No running from activity to activity. Picking up the house at the end of the day will take 1/10th of the time it does now. The kids won't have an entire room full of toys they never play with, but instead a few that they do play with. We will eat better. More "natural", less processed. Life will be more relational and less task oriented. More "being" and less "doing". Going to the grocery to get food will be less of a task, than it will be a day long adventure. And going to McDonalds... well that just won't happen at all :)

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Haiti Elliotts

Hey Everyone

We will return to this blog eventually, but for now and most of 2011, you can find us at our Haiti Elliotts blog.  You can find it here:

haitielliotts.blogspot.com.

THANKS!!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Happy Birthday Sitota

Today we celebrated the big 2 with the little man! He had a great time eating his M&M cake (his favorite) and playing with his friends.... CLICK HERE TO SEE PICS!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

fun with kenyans

As is often the case, I have highjacked my friend Emily's post to put on here. It's great having a personal photographer with you for nearly every fun event! Here are some pics of a cookout at our place in honor of our visiting Kenyan friends. Don't miss the second video of Syd and Sitota sledding with their Uncle Brian on a boogie board! : CLICK HERE FOR PICTURES

Life Happens

Well, it does. And around here, it happens pretty darn fast! It has been awhile (nice way of saying WAY too long) since I have posted. We have been busy living life. Isabel is enjoying first grade and taking tap and ballet. Sydney is my little helper at home and has been helping her brother learn all types of new things and has been playing on a soccer team and taking tumbling classes. Sitota is.... well, Sitota. He is a little bundle of cute energy. Unlike the girls, he has an uncontrollable desire to tinker with everything. I'm not sure my house is going to survive him. He spends his days tormenting his sisters, spilling things, and chasing the dog around. It amazes me to see how far he has come both physically and mentally in the last year. He is a very intelligent little man these days. And of course he loves to be the life of the party. His smile lights up a room and can melt even the coldest heart.

Aaron and I have kept busy with work (Aaron still at Grace, me still at the pharmacy) and travel. Aaron has been to Haiti and Mexico this past year. I just led a small team of 15 on a medical mission trip to Chichicastenango, Guatemala. We are currently building a team of 20 for a trip we are co-leading to Haiti in July. Aaron has started working out regularly... at 5am!? I have been working out all winter and have just started running again. I am such a fair weather runner :) I have recently picked up the guitar and am learning to play. It is going slower than I thought but I enjoy learning new things. We are gearing up for a great summer full of travel. In addition to Haiti we are going to visit relatives in Ohio, and heading for a two week long Florida vacation! I imagine this summer will be full of late nights on the patio by the fire pit with wine and smores.... so if you know where we live, come join us some night!

I guess thats all for now.

Peace.

Shelli

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Isabel Birthday Party

Here is a link to a video of the girls "mixin it up!"



Monday, January 25, 2010

Isabel's bday party



Hard to believe, but Isabel turned 7 this year. She wanted a Maggie Moo's birthday and it was a lot of fun. She was so excited to celebrate her birthday 5 times! Once as school, at dance class, at Maggie Moos, at Cancun for dinner, and then again at home.



Syd is ready to party.
Sitota was born ready to party.
Isabel puts on gloves for surgery. Uh, I mean making ice cream. She made her favorite, Better BAtter.
We tried to lock them in the freezer but they were just too fast.
The birthday girl concocts some sort of chocolaty goodness.
Syd puts some muscle into it!
And of course Aaron had to climb behind the counter for a shot at it. Looks like a natural.
Isabel and friends (and a really tall cow)
A little excited for the Princess and the Frog wii game.
Who knows what she wished for. A pet fish, a horse, world peace... you never know with her.

Thanksgiving and Christmas Pics (aka Kristen stop bugging me to post photos)


Ok, it has been awhile.... a long while. I've been busy. I have 3 kids, a dog, a house, and a job. And I am a bit lazy as far as posting goes. So anyway- here are some pics in no particular order.


Syd modeling her new fairy outfit.
Matching fairy outfits (no, Sitota didn't get one)
Santa came through the neighborhood in a firetruck (man, that guy has all the time in the world!) and they let the kids "drive"
Can't wait till she turns 16 (read that with as much sarcasm as you can muster up)
Sitota missed the pic- he was asleep in the car.
Merry Christmas from the Elliott living room.
Aaron is pretty happy to put that Angel up.
Happy Thanksgiving from 3 good looking girls, and a duck!




Saturday, October 31, 2009

Halloween

Fun playing in the leaves
Sitota "helps" rake leaves.
Isabel couldn't get enough jumping in leaves.
The girls carve their pumpkins that they designed.
Ohhh Scary!
Trick or treat buddies!

Isn't Cohen the cutest pirate you have ever seen?
This is Sitota saying "Lets go get some candy!"
Of course the ninja and cow (Zac and Syd) had to have a leaf fight half way through trick or treating. Parker looks like he wants to join in but they were really going at it.
LOVE my the costumes! And the ping pong balls were Velcro-ed on for removal for actual play!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Fun conversations with kids...


So awhile back Syd had finished her allotted amount of chores (and Izzy hadn't) and we were heading to Meijer to pick out a doll Syd had been working towards. Needless to say Izzy was a bit bummed (and in her words, a little jealous) she wasn't getting a doll too. I thought I would cheer her up a bit with a little story about when she was 2... the girl loves to hear stories from the past. I told her about how one time we were in Meijer and she told me she really wanted a brother or a sister. I asked her how she thought one got a brother or sister. She started to look around and then said "Well, were is the brother and sister isle?". Why not? They sell everything else at Meijer! So, that was the story. Which then brought out this conversation:

Isabel: That was so silly. I thought you could get a brother or sister at Meijer. Duh, you can't do that!

Syd: Isabel you are so silly. Brothers and sisters come from Ethiopia!

Me: uh, well....

Isabel (cutting me off): No they don't. They come from inside of a mommy. How do they get out of there?

Me: uh, well...

Syd: What? How does a baby get in there?

Me: uh, well...

Syd: So mom, was I from your belly, Ethiopia, or Meijer?

Me: Oh look kids... the car wash... should we go thru the car wash?

Ahhhh the art of distraction

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Chicago!


This past weekend we travelled up to Chicago to hang out with some of Sitota's orphanage buddies! We met up with two of the couples from our travel group (one from the Cincinnati area and one from the Twin Cities area) for a fun weekend. We had a fun time and it was so cute to see Sitota, Tseganesh, and Lydia all together. It was amazing to see how much they have all changed in the 6 months since we have been home. We found out that besides their curly hair, they all share the same high pitched, ear wrenching scream! You couldn't tell which kid was screaming, they all sounded the same! Perhaps the nannies are teaching the kids this in the orphanage?!

Here are the kids all ready for the trip! We picked Isabel up from school and headed up. The 3 hour trip was long.... Sitota practiced screaming for half of it, and Isabel felt the need to ask the age old question, "Are we there yet" or some form of it for practically the entire trip.

Sitota and his buddies Lydia and Tseganesh.
Waiting for the Metra to go into the city. This might have been the most exciting part for some of the kids!


Union Station in Chicago
Elevator in Union Station, not sure why the acronym...

On the bus... going to Shedd's. The girls love public transport! Seriously, riding the buses and trains are as much fun for them as the actual places we are going to.


Willis (aka Sears) Tower

We stayed in Naperville (a very cute suburb) and got to eat at my all time favorite pizza place, Giordano's! We spent Sunday on the riverwalk before eating at a great little Argentinean restraunt followed by a few hours at the Dupage Children's museum.

As we were debating where to eat, I turned around to see Syd sitting on this statue.
The whole gang!

Sitota is a bit excited about lunch.

At the children's museum. Sitota loves the drums, perhaps he will follow in his Uncle Brian's footsteps.

Syd shows off the "T" she made.
Isabel made a cell phone out of wood and then preceded to "talk" on it for the next several hours.




After a long weekend, we head home. It was a nice, quiet ride.